Subreddit Rules Please see above link for full rules. Want to add to the discussion. My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character. I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up. I am married to an ongologist for 16years. Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year. It's hard right now because he's on a general surgery rotation so his hours suck and I never see him. I got to thinking about how I and others in my ward might react if a same sex couple attended church and how those views might WILL, fingers crossed change over the next decade. I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what.
Over the span of the last year though, things have slowly changed. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple. That's a really sad story. The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. Love in Different Languages. In the end people have to make their own decisions.
He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. Reading all your comments makes me feel sometimes uplifted, other times scared as hell. That's all we're really saying. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. We met when I was 19 and have been together only the past 4 years but the love has never died. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. She will likely want you to convert to fix the family.
I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. So I guess, in this case, all's well that Thanks for posting the update. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. Love in Different Languages. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds.